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	SexSearch.com is the winner ! This site comes highly recommended. I still kick myself for not going to this one when I first started out. The website has a large number of gay and bisexual male members. SexSearch also offers great auto match options and extensive search features, which makes finding the right partner easy, no matter what your preference might be. SexSearch is awesome, they will also give you some great tips on how to build your profile. Also, as a free extra, they give you access to some of the largest adult websites and also: some lucrative discounts on several other memberships
	GayFriendFinder was the first site I subscribed to. I came across one of their ads on an entertainment website and decided to give them a try. I managed to meet some pretty hot guys through AdultFriendFinder, but it was like finding the proverbial needle in the gaystack. The site doesn’t have nearly the amount of gay and bisexual members as SexSearch.
	AmateurMatch gets two hearts because I like their layout and their advanced, modern features. Unfortunately, despite the fabulous design, I didn’t ‘hook up’ with anyone through them. Sure, I met some interesting people there and have done some e-mailing and instantmessaging... However, be fair guys, that’s not exactly what we’re looking for, right? ;-)
	I heard good things about IwantU, unfortunately I had some trouble with my account and the responsiveness from their support team was very poor. I then went on to create a new account, which did work. See my review comments on AmateurMatch for more info, since I practically got the same results here. Zip, nada, nilch, unless you consider three new instant message buddies you’ll never get to screw money well spent, of course.
	OUTPersonals.com was a waste of my money. Could be just me, but I didn’t find one guy even remotely to my liking... And trust me, I’m not THAT picky. The site doesn’t work for me, the guys I met through it weren’t even good for so much as a little stimulating conversation. This one is definitely not recommended.

Last Words :
As you see, there are GREAT differences in quality between dating websites on the internet. It’s great to see the dating industry evolving to help the average guy get laid! LOL. I’ll admit, I was pretty sceptical at first. I just couldn’t believe there were actual people putting their profiles and pics online.

But boy, was I wrong. Many guys, especially young business types, subscribe to these kinds of website because their jobs are so demanding they simply can’t afford to waste any time whiling away in bars and clubs to pick up guys. They use Adult Personals to go STRAIGHT (pun intended) to the point.

In other words: Adult Personals are a great way to meet hot men! Don’t get me wrong, its not like I’m a complete sexaholic (I prefer the term ‘overactive libido’), but I just like to have as many ‘good times’ as humanly possible. Men are hunters, which makes the average gay man one of the biggest prowlers out there. Be sure to expand your hunting grounds!

As I said before: there are some real crappy sites out there. I tried all these adult dating websites myself. I know which ones work and which are just out to rip you off. Wasting money on these false sites really sucks, and not in the good, warm, fuzzy way we all crave. That’s part of the reason I started this site: I want the truth be known about the sites that are scams, consider it my gift to you and a way to get back at them. As said above, I completely recommend SexSearch, it's a great dating-service that works. If you’re from France or in Asia I can also recommend GayFriendFinder. However, if you’re in the United Kingdom, United States or Canada just go with SexSearch. Trust me, you’ll be thanking me later.

Recent E-mail:
Approximately two weeks ago, on 26 August 2010 I got this interesting e-mail from Glen, I got an interesting e-mail from Glen, thanking me for my work on this page and the adult personal website reviews.

Thanks again for your e-mail Glen, you asked me to include it on my website so here it is:

Dear GayDatingPortal,

Hallelujah, I have seen the light! Thanks to the info on your site, I finally was able to make sense of all those dating sites out there. I always wanted to get in on it, but didn’t know where to start.
I’ve went on four dates in the past four weeks, all thanks through the info on your site. Your advice really worked, at least for me. One of the guys I met just might be ‘the one’.
Thanks agains your time, effort and incredible research! To me your tips really kicked a** and made sure I got some, too ;) lol.

Love,

Glen

The History of Dating :
Back in the animal kingdom, there’s no such thing as dating. During breeding season, animals simply pick a mate based on fertility, strength or pheromones. Its plain, simple and easy, the “Wham, Bam, Thank You Sam” approach to sexuality. Nothing wrong with a little bestial lust, of course. But there’s more.

But us humans do spend time courting our mates. Courtship is the way to go in order to get love and sex. Seducing the perfect mate is what its all about. Philosophers and scientists speculate that the reason we have higher brainfunctions and are capable of expressing ourselves through art and music if largely because of courtship.

Most datingservice users aren’t immediately looking for a longtime relationship, but through dating there’s always the chance you hook up with the guy of your dreams. Through courting, people have explored each other’s personality, hobbies and other interests, hoping to find a perfect match. And trust me: the sex is so much better when you actually like the person you’re with.

Classic Dating versus Adult Dating :
The business of online dating has changed a lot over the past years. The first dating sites were launched in the early nineties. Most of them were little more than extensions of local dating agencies, simply putting their members on the net.

We’ve come a long way since those early days. Technology has greatly improved the dating experience. Profiles can be built to your personal taste, using not only plain text and a blurry picture, but also adding several photos and even audio and videos. This had caused the founding of several niche dating sites that create large online social communities…
Adult dating is not as different from classic internet dating as you might think. To me, the biggest advantages Adult Dating over regular dating are:

More open, fun and interesting guys
The sites are constantly coming up with more innovative features
More sexually open minded people
Interesting communities
Being able to put or browse sexually tinted photos or videos online

Don’t kid yourself: The boys and men on adult dating websites such as SexSearch or AdultFriendFinder still want to be swept off their feet. Whether you’re on an exciting sex date or a romantic dinner: in the end, your are looking for that beautiful special someone in your life. And he is doing the same…

How to get your profile noticed :
Always use crisp and clear photos that scream CLICK ME! No tiny, unclear shots, it doesn’t help your case. Also: try to use pics where you’re mostly alone in the shot. I’ve seen plenty of profiles with several guys in one pic. Make sure people immediately know who you are.
Its also helps to add a little sparkle and colour to otherwise bland pictures. Use photo editing software, tweak the contrast and color scheme a little bit and make thoe photos look hot !

Try something unexpected every once in a while. A friend of mine put a head shot of a monkey on his dating profile a while ago and he got over 35 unique comments in one day ! The monkey got a lot of attention, and the men who replied to his profile immediately knew what a cool, fun, outgoing guy my buddy is.
Try different photos to see which one work and more importantly: which don’t. If you have enough shots, rotate your photos two or three times each week. Its an easy way to get noticed. Check to see in which weeks you got the most comments and visits. Make a record of it, dating is serious business. I’ve attached the Excel file I use for your convenience :-)

Preferably use photos where you’re doing something cool. So it’s easy for people to comment on your pictures.
Write in an outgoing style, don’t be boring. For example, this is what I used on my profile:

"... 'Say, don't I know you from?' No, you don't, so don't even bother. I'm not the kind of guy who falls for cheap pick up lines, cheesy come ons or any other stuff that's as unoriginal as it was when first used back in 1934. I like men, but that doesn't make me a woman, I like guys who feel the same way, being gay doesn't mean you have to grow a pussy or be one. Just be you, that's what I try to "

Naturally, it doesn’t help your case if you’re posing as something you’re not. If you’re not into clubbing or art house movies, don’t say you love the nightlife or spend your free hours watching Bulgarian documentaries. That way, people will consider you to be a phony. Just be you, but it never hurts to emphasize your strengths ;)

My tips and Guidelines for a sex date :
Always be respectful. Even though it is ‘just a sexdate’, guys are not a piece of meat, never mind how hot they look. Be polite and treat him with the same respect you’d expect.

Charm’s the way to his arms: Be charming, sex is way better if you actually think the other person is special. You can be charming by acting confident, or by doing nice (non sexual!) stuff for him. Pay him compliments about his looks, his clothes, his appearance in general... You know most gay men are vain, right? Another thing: Give them the idea you’re about more than just sex. For example: it never hurts to bring along a DVD to watch before or after.

Learn some new moves; having good sex is a skill which requires lots and lots of practice. Personally, I don’t mind the practice sessions at all ;-) Read the Kamasutra or any other ‘how to’ book. Don’t be afraid to mentor and guide guys in bed, by showing them new techniques, you’re sure to leave a lasting, good impression.

Don’t have sex right away; go for a drink or a movie first this will give you both something to enjoy and to look forward to later.

Don’t blame the game; there are tons of guys out there. If one of them doesn’t reply to your comment or post, just move on to the next one. Don’t take the silence stuff personal, it hardly ever is. It’s possible that the guy in question didn’t sign in for a month, or is in a relationship right now and forgot to remove his ad.